It’s Day 1 of video-a-day Debruary here on the Debsterism channel! This show discusses pacing of new relationships and how women mistakenly think letting the guy set the tone and speed of involvement shows interest and love. Nope, what it shows is that you are easily caught up and not handling yourself properly if you really want to get the guy.
The girlish, overly romantic, idealistic view of a whirlwind romance can seem like the best way to do things at the time because it’s fun and exciting. But as a mature woman on her grind, why do that to yourself? Soon enough you will have the power of hindsight and realize you did or gave too much, way too soon.
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